LDR

Every relationship requires communication in order to survive. When you are in a long distance one, you really have to take extra care to make sure you are communicating...The key is to stay positive, stay optimistic. Don’t listen to anyone who tells you that long distance relationships don’t work, like me I'm in a LDR relationships, my hubby works overseas for a long time , the question to ask is not whether long distance relationships work, but whether you want to make it work. Are you willing to put in the effort required to make it work?......

Last time ay na meet ko yong friend ko almost after 10 years ago muli kaming nagkita, na amazed lang ako sa kanya at naitanung ko kong paano nya nahandle ang relationship nila ng kanyang family na sya ay working overseas pero stick together parin sila ng family nya, Ito ang mga natandaan ko sa sinabi nya, i know nagagawa ko din ito pero kung minsan may mga bagay na hinde ko ma-explain talaga bakit ganon but good thing nakakatulong nga toh'


- huwag kang mag communicate sa family mo kung di rin
lang naman maganda ang sasabihin natin


- once they send messages, for example just text once, then reply once


- be responsible for your self na walang ibang makakaunawa sayo at magpapahalaga sayo kundi ang sarili mo din.


- don't expect that everytime they will understand us, pag no text or calls


for a long time don't be depressed na to the point ay mapabayaan na natin
ang sarili natin.


Ang sabi pa nya, papaano nalang pag nakita kayong muli eh mukha kanang lusyang, sasabihin mo ba sa kanya ana dahil sayo ay nagkaganito ako!? No, eh papano daw kung siya ay inimprove nya yong personality nya, tapos nang nagkita kayong muli ay haggard na haggard ang look natin? at ang partner natin ang sisihin natin?


- we must learn to be independent, at turuan din daw natin ang mga anak natin to be independent din at para pag dumating talaga ang times na magkahiwa-hiwalay ang family for some other reasons ay they can stand by their own.


- improve ourselves , sa halip na mag-isip ka ng mga negative thoughs about your partner na nasa malayo, we must do valuable things, gaya ng magpaganda , mag-aral - to improve our talents and skills.


Para sa pagkikita nyong muli ng partner or husband, they will appreciate us much more sa ginawang pagpapahalaga natin sa ating sarili at kapamilya natin.

At kung in other way around ay nagloko sila at wag naman sanang mangyari, masasabi nating "it is not our loss but their loss"

- give yourself a short-time to be happy, a short time to make friends to miggle with others para malibang tayo, but keep in mind know our bounderies and limitations especially sa opposite sex, we must know how to open it and how to close it if it just for a short time...sabi nya marami daw kasi ibig sabihin ng short-time at ito'y naka depende sa atin how to do and apply it .

 Nasa atin din kung magiging strong tayo malayo man ang mahal natin sa buhay , trust your partner and keep faith ..