Secret trip..

It's been almost 2 wks since we went in a secret trip together, just for us lang talaga , First we set up the plan over the phone and the next day we traveled in our destination, maaga kaming nakarating sa aming target place in Tagaytay Hotel & Resort, its a peaceful and very relaxing place, malamig ang simoy ng hangin, the room is perfect for us , so nag stay kami dun in one night, so excited na mga kids na maligo sa pool and taking  pictures everywhere , that's it parang napaka bilis ng pangyayare, sa amin naman mga girls we experience a great spa ....sarap ulitin hihihi and after nun nagpahinga na mga kids sleeping time na , syempre kami we have night girls out , experience na maglakad sa kalsada we went in MUSHROOM BURGER place, kain kami doon with walang katapusang chikahan  hehe.. pagbalik sa room namin my dala na kaming mga  drinks and pulutan, I'm happy coz nagenjoy mga bata and the same time its our girls weekend nagkaroon kami ng break lol while sharing some funny stories bawat isa , our thoughts, and other life goals kahit ano-ano and laughing all the way is the best remedy ...mas masarap naman ang pakiramdam kung tawa ka ng tawa..para kaming mga  loka-loka that time lol!



We have a great time together, spending time with all my sisters and kids.. , thanks ate for the treat, it will always stay a secret promise!!!! :)

forgive

In a relationship tandaan, huwag na wag kang papasok sa pagmamahal na yan kung wala ka nito - FORGIVING HEART
Everyone makes mistakes, everyone needs to forgive and to be forgiven. To love with an open heart is to risk getting hurt. Therefore, in conscious living and conscious loving, forgiveness will always play a key role.
Simply put, forgiveness is a choice to trade pain and heartache for peace and freedom.


Here are a few reasons why I continue to make that choice everyday:


-I forgive because I am committed to living and loving with an open and healed heart.
-I forgive because no one is perfect. In our humanness, we all have been hurt, and we have all hurt others.
-I forgive because it empowers me to live in the present moment. I cannot change the past or the people who have imposed their pain on me. However, I can simply choose to let it go.
-I forgive because I want to live in peace and love instead of conflict and blame. I accept that every experience, challenge and relationship is here to teach me a lesson about life and love.
-I forgive because I trust in the power of love and its ability to heal and transform.
-I forgive because it offers me with the peace of mind and personal freedom I deserve.
-I forgive because I realize I am the only one responsible for my happiness.
-I forgive as an act of self-love and respect.
-I forgive because in spiritual truth, there are no unforgivable actions.


Forgiveness Quote
 “There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love.” 
- Bryant H. McGill

LDR

Every relationship requires communication in order to survive. When you are in a long distance one, you really have to take extra care to make sure you are communicating...The key is to stay positive, stay optimistic. Don’t listen to anyone who tells you that long distance relationships don’t work, like me I'm in a LDR relationships, my hubby works overseas for a long time , the question to ask is not whether long distance relationships work, but whether you want to make it work. Are you willing to put in the effort required to make it work?......

Last time ay na meet ko yong friend ko almost after 10 years ago muli kaming nagkita, na amazed lang ako sa kanya at naitanung ko kong paano nya nahandle ang relationship nila ng kanyang family na sya ay working overseas pero stick together parin sila ng family nya, Ito ang mga natandaan ko sa sinabi nya, i know nagagawa ko din ito pero kung minsan may mga bagay na hinde ko ma-explain talaga bakit ganon but good thing nakakatulong nga toh'


- huwag kang mag communicate sa family mo kung di rin
lang naman maganda ang sasabihin natin


- once they send messages, for example just text once, then reply once


- be responsible for your self na walang ibang makakaunawa sayo at magpapahalaga sayo kundi ang sarili mo din.


- don't expect that everytime they will understand us, pag no text or calls


for a long time don't be depressed na to the point ay mapabayaan na natin
ang sarili natin.


Ang sabi pa nya, papaano nalang pag nakita kayong muli eh mukha kanang lusyang, sasabihin mo ba sa kanya ana dahil sayo ay nagkaganito ako!? No, eh papano daw kung siya ay inimprove nya yong personality nya, tapos nang nagkita kayong muli ay haggard na haggard ang look natin? at ang partner natin ang sisihin natin?


- we must learn to be independent, at turuan din daw natin ang mga anak natin to be independent din at para pag dumating talaga ang times na magkahiwa-hiwalay ang family for some other reasons ay they can stand by their own.


- improve ourselves , sa halip na mag-isip ka ng mga negative thoughs about your partner na nasa malayo, we must do valuable things, gaya ng magpaganda , mag-aral - to improve our talents and skills.


Para sa pagkikita nyong muli ng partner or husband, they will appreciate us much more sa ginawang pagpapahalaga natin sa ating sarili at kapamilya natin.

At kung in other way around ay nagloko sila at wag naman sanang mangyari, masasabi nating "it is not our loss but their loss"

- give yourself a short-time to be happy, a short time to make friends to miggle with others para malibang tayo, but keep in mind know our bounderies and limitations especially sa opposite sex, we must know how to open it and how to close it if it just for a short time...sabi nya marami daw kasi ibig sabihin ng short-time at ito'y naka depende sa atin how to do and apply it .

 Nasa atin din kung magiging strong tayo malayo man ang mahal natin sa buhay , trust your partner and keep faith ..

At Solenad Nuvali :)

After a short visit to Tagaytay and back home, my sister and I decided to stopover to Nuvali and bring the kiddos, actually It was my first time to visit the place, We just wanted to see what was there, fish feeding, boat riding, unique resto's, bazaar and lot more , its a great place bonding w/ family and  hangouts with friends.. but the good thing is I Thank god because it did not rain when we had our fish feeding session , the kids really enjoy,  the fish feed buy for only P15 per pack very affordable noh' and their taxi boat P30/head, iikot lang mga 5 mins. ride, hinde lang kami sumakay  sa boat more time feeding the fish lol..  anyways  we really had a great time at Nuvali and we're looking forward for another visit soon. wish! wish!

Ham waffles

Another great  merienda na gusto kong i-share sa inyo , may left over Ham kasi sa lamesa na pinalaman sa pandesal, im sure hinde na kakainin ito' sayang naman diba , kaya  nag try ako na gawing ham waffles... since im doing this nag add na din ako ng hotdog and cheese para sa masarap na food trip.. nakakatuwa my son really likes hotdog waffles.  simple recipes using Maya Hotcake Mix, hotdogs, cheese  and ham .



cut the ham into strips



put the hotcake mix pour it into waffle maker, add the ham strips

 

well done ,
Till next food trip !!!

 

You're the one Goldilocks!

A lot of memories that reminds me , i just realized how much Goldilocks has been a part of our life, for so many years we've been buying Goldilocks for birthdays and other celebrations, i also tried the other goodies like polvoron , macaroons, ensamayda and a lot more and when we go malling , we dining in at Goldilocks store , we always buy fresh lumpia and the siopao it taste good.. of course they have more food items to choose from, i love their pork barbecue, dinuguan and lot more yum .. and their cakes it's perfect pasalubong for everyone. so why don't you try?
here's the pictures why i love Goldilocks.. share ko lang hihi..



for my son on his 3rd birthday



on his 4th birthday



 for our parents we celebrate their 39th Anniversary



A birthday present for lolo and lola.



a birthday gift from their apo 's

I love Goldilocks .. kaya bili na!

Nutrition month

Yesterday was Celebrate Nutrition Month at School ,Teach kids to eat healthy food and to encourage them, actually pihikan din sa food ang son ko kaya nahihirapan din ako, what will i do? hirap pakainin ,
Anyways Corn ang naka assign sa knya , im happy for doing his part na memorize niya "kasabihan" bout sa corn..hehe kahit medyo shy pa siya that time tinuloy nya lang in front of his classmates and teachers ... good job anak ..